Thinking about changes you can make in your sex life can be a bit scary: whether you’re in a LTR or are perpetually single, getting out of your comfort zone is never easy. Here are a few ways you can bring sexy back…
THE MORE THE MERRIER
Films, books and almost all media coverage have us believing that we should be searching for ‘the one’. Our soulmate, the person we’re meant to spend the rest of our life with. But maybe that’s just not a realistic option for everyone? The idea of poly-amorous relationships is becoming more and more acceptable, with the ever-increasing and wonderful flux of sexuality; life is basically begging you to experiment with all the options. If you’re interested, maybe try Grouper, the new social app that matches you with another person, and encourages you to take two ‘wingmen’ with you. Who may or may not end up as fluffers. Hey, it’s 2014: anything goes.
EMBRACE YOUR PLAYFUL SIDE
One thing we’ve learnt this year: toys are not just for children. In fact, some toys should definitely be kept out of reach of children, namely toys that help you machen sie liebe. A study from sex toy stalwarts LELO found that purchases of certain toys specifically aimed at couples has increased by 82%. What can we learn from this? Your vibrator is no longer something you get out when your partner goes away on a business trip; it’s something you can actually use with them. To encourage this novel idea, maybe think about spicing up your sexy time by signing up to a subscription service. Many companies send out monthly packages of naughty items and lingerie to keep things fresh. It’s basically an erotic Graze box. Can you think of anything better?
OUT OF THE CLOSET
No, we’re not talking sexually: we’re talking literally. The best way for you to feel sexier this year is to embrace it with what you wear. Yes, your biker boots may be the comfiest thing you own, but would Jessica Rabbit perform her sultry song in them? Maybe it’s time to show a little skin, indulge in some strapless seduction, or invest in a pair of killer heels. Confidence is undoubtedly the sexiest trait, and nothing gives you a boost like a foxy outfit.
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